Winning Him Without Words: 10 Keys to Thriving in Your Spiritually Mismatched Marriage by Miller Dineen & Donovan Lynn

Author:Miller, Dineen & Donovan, Lynn [Miller, Dineen]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Gospel Light
Published: 2011-02-15T00:00:00+00:00

3. No False Assumptions

For some reason, our human nature seems to jump to the conclusion that when we are hurt or wronged, it’s done intentionally. More often than not, I’ve found these wrongs stem from either miscommunication or misinterpretation, which lead to wrong assumptions. This is an area I have to work at very intentionally. I’m very good at putting the pieces together to form a conclusion that seems right, only to find out it’s wrong. I learned this lesson the most effective way when someone—namely my husband—made a wrong assumption about why I said or did something. To be accused of something you didn’t do or think is very hurtful.

Now I’m very careful to get my facts straight before I make any conclusions. This takes constant practice and awareness to retrain my nature so that my actions and reactions will follow suit. Again, here is an area where capturing our thoughts for Christ is not just inspirational but practical (see 2 Cor. 10:5).

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